In this time, honor the fact that your child is a child. I have been reminded several times that my daughter is sheltered. I disagree. I don't believe she needs to see the news, hear about the sadness or darkness in order to learn about the past. At least not at her current age. What our children need now is to see our actions and growth and to see how we move to love and embrace others.

Books! So many books written that talk about diversity or share a view into another child or families world are written by one race. I discovered this while teaching and wanted to make sure I was sharing diverse literature that was written by those that truly lived what they were sharing.  These books aren't focused on racism. They offer a look into the way others live, the way we are born different, and our lifestyles and skin color that may differ from our own. 

While I have books on racism, many of them are written by white authors and while I am not judging this (and they are full of great information), I am pushing myself beyond that and don't want to share that right now. A book that I do reccomended that is more recent is So You Want to Talk About Race, by, Ijeoma Oluo. I would start with it to have your heart and mind awakened, challenged and changed.   

For our children. Having books on our shelves that share the diversity of our world on a regular basis is one way to support open conversations with our children. To show the beauty that exists and not only the darkness. It's so important to highlight the good when talking about the "bad." But, it's just a piece of the puzzle, don't let books do the hard work. 

Here are some of my favorites. Please share yours,  but I challenge you to check out the authors and share more than white authors! I'll try to do a story and share a few images from the books, soon! 

*LITTLE LEADERS, Bold Women in Black History and Little Leaders,  Exceptional Men in Black History By Vashiti Harrison and Kwesi Johnson.  

*Saturday By Oge Mora  

*A chair for my mother, by Vera B, Williams.   

*Mixed Me By Taye Diggs  

*Fry Bread By Kevin Noble Maillard  

*My Brother Charlie By Holly  Robinson   

*Imani's Moon By Janay Brown-Wood   

*The Family Book By Todd Parr  

*A Day with Yayah, by Nicola Campbell (or any of her books).   

*Kamik Joins the Pack By Darryl Baker  

*My Heart Fills With Happiness By sâkaskinêw nitêh miywêyihtamowin ohci  

*The Seeing Stick By Jane Yolen  

*Wild Berries By Julie Flett  

*This is Ella By Krista Ewert  

*The Name Jar By Yangsook Choi  

*My Name is Yoon By Helen Recorvits's  

*I am Enough By Grace Byers  

*Ben's Adventures By Elizabeth Gerlach


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Meet Joey Hodlmair

 
Hello! I'm Joey,

A 41 year old mama of one, my miracle baby. I'm a lover of all things nature and you'll often find me barefoot in the garden. I was raised "wild" as many would call it today. I spent my days outside as a child, collecting rocks and sticks and swimming with my ducks. We made beautiful art from our nature treasures and ate lunch with dirt under our nails. The best part~I was raised by my mom. Unfortunately a woman that didn't know her worth and to this day wonders if the childhood she provided us was enough.

My mom and my childhood~Are the reasons I'm here in this space. To encourage you to find the calm in where your heart calls you to be. To encourage you to leave the hustle behind and be connected with what truly matters. 

I wasn't raised with all the latest and greatest,  but I was raised at home by a mama that made the mundane, magical. Her time was and is a gift. I'm here to tell you to let go of what the world wants you to believe a child needs in order to be happy.

More about me~ I am an empath, raising an emapth. My work is currently supporting families raising emapths.  My love language is acts of service, but I'm working on putting myself at the top of the list. I can play several instruments by ear, but the cello is probably my favorite. I'm a recovering workaholic, once a woman that believed her worth was determined by how much she accomplished...I love homemade food and meals at the table. I am an introvert, that loves being home, yet craves connection. I'm Hispanic, Chinese and Native American. I'm a infertility warrior that once dreamed of 7 children. I'm a work in progress and thankful for this chapter in my life that has taught me to never judge a book by its cover.  

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